A shocking announcement:
I do not pick up hints that are aimed at me all that well. I never have.
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A request:
If you want me to know what you are thinking or feeling, please tell me.
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A note:
Yes, there are exceptions to this. There are people whose more subtle communications manage to get across to me much of the time. Key word? Exception.
Far more common are things like its taking Betsy 6 months to get me to notice her. My lack of subtlety is based on my own communication, not based on assumptions about yours.
I do not pick up hints that are aimed at me all that well. I never have.
*************
A request:
If you want me to know what you are thinking or feeling, please tell me.
*************
A note:
Yes, there are exceptions to this. There are people whose more subtle communications manage to get across to me much of the time. Key word? Exception.
Far more common are things like its taking Betsy 6 months to get me to notice her. My lack of subtlety is based on my own communication, not based on assumptions about yours.